Say NO to sex before marriage
I believe it is immoral to have sex before marriage. However, this is not just a matter of religion. God didn’t just randomly make some things sins. There’s a logic to them.
Having sex before marriage is only going to cloud the relationship with passion and prevent you from really getting to know the person. What happens when the “in love” phase fades away? What will the relationship be based on?
Get to really know the person without physical stuff clouding your judgment. Then when you get married you can fully give yourself to the other and know you are really loved for who you are. That’s why the stats show that people who wait divorce less.
Plus, having sex with people before marriage is in a way being unfaithful to your spouse even if you haven’t met them yet. Wouldn’t you feel more loved if your husband or wife waited just for you and then gave him/herself completely to you and no one else? This is why I follow morality. It makes sense and truly makes you free.
"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and hon our..." ~ 1 Thessalonians 4:3–4
"But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whore monger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God." ~ Ephesians 5:3–5
I believe it is immoral to have sex before marriage. However, this is not just a matter of religion. God didn’t just randomly make some things sins. There’s a logic to them.
Having sex before marriage is only going to cloud the relationship with passion and prevent you from really getting to know the person. What happens when the “in love” phase fades away? What will the relationship be based on?
Get to really know the person without physical stuff clouding your judgment. Then when you get married you can fully give yourself to the other and know you are really loved for who you are. That’s why the stats show that people who wait divorce less.
Plus, having sex with people before marriage is in a way being unfaithful to your spouse even if you haven’t met them yet. Wouldn’t you feel more loved if your husband or wife waited just for you and then gave him/herself completely to you and no one else? This is why I follow morality. It makes sense and truly makes you free.
"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and hon our..." ~ 1 Thessalonians 4:3–4
"But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whore monger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God." ~ Ephesians 5:3–5
to all singles,,purpose to live a live worth for Christ. Amen
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